Finding your ideal Mate | Tango

My favorite… if you are not in love with yourself, how can anyone else fall in love with you. “Fall in love with yourself. You can’t expect someone else to fall in love with you if you are not in love with yourself. When we judge or criticize ourselves, we send out an energy that repels others. Self-criticism is a negative energy that will repel potential mates. On the other hand, self-love is attractive and attracts potential mates. Make a list of ten characteristics you love about yourself and put this list where you can see it every day. It doesn’t really matter what is on the list as long as it easily generates good feelings that you have toward yourself. The more you focus on what you love about yourself, the more self-love you will experience. Others will fall in love with you too, simply because it feels great to be around people who love themselves.”

Healthy Love: How To Be Friends With Your Ex | Healthy Black Woman

When a marriage or romantic relationship ends on a bad note, both parties involved may have spent months or years disagreeing but they typically agree on one thing; they never want to see each other again! Of course not everyone who decided to end their relationship ends it on a sour note and feels contention toward their former spouse or partner; sometimes the parting of ways is more amicable and even if it is not, if children are involved most adults make the effort to be civil to one another.

via Healthy Love: How To Be Friends With Your Ex | Healthy Black Woman.